DO or DON’T. That’s it. Two ways of aiming, driving, striving, shaping, forming, becoming, directing your life.
It’s NEED that determines which way we choose. The need to grow or the need to pretend and stay safe in a trained and limited way of thinking..
The need to belong or to pretend we’re not really ”those people” or people at all.
Security or Risk. To step close to see the edge and marvel at our height to feel encouraged we can go another step, or to stay far enough back to fall and not worry.
To put ourselves in others shoes to see life through their eyes, or believing we have the ”true” shoes and only we see what’s right.
To join the group who shares the same talents and desires as support and connections, or to go it alone.
Judging ourselves for the lacks we are told we have makes it hard to climb over the mound of mental sludge and trash we have accepted over years. We might sink to our knees enough times to just sit for good, thinking the view is always the same no matter where we slip next.
But if we keep walking, climbing and look closely, we will see the trash become more shallow and soon there is better footing and fast growth and more happiness for all. Fall and rise, fall and get up again, trip and catch yourself and lift yourself up again. We don’t stop driving on a road just because of potholes and loose gravel and an occasional wreck or so. BUT that’s stuff that just happens at times.
We can always fall back down to where we were, if we get tired of the great improvements that always come about from trying without stopping.